It’s Okay to Have No Clue What You’re Doing

Let’s get real for a moment:
Most of us are figuring things out as we go.
Despite the highlight reels, the curated feeds, and the illusion of always having it together — nobody really knows what they’re doing all the time.

And that’s okay.

There are seasons where clarity feels miles away.
Where you wake up unsure, take the next step unsure, and fall asleep unsure.
Maybe it’s your career.
Your healing.
Your relationships.
Your sense of self.

Whatever it is — if you’re in a chapter that feels messy, uncertain, or directionless, you’re not failing.
You’re just human.

Growth Doesn’t Always Feel Like Progress

Sometimes growth looks like standing still.
Like crying in your car.
Like letting go of things that no longer fit, even when you don’t know what comes next.
Like showing up anyway, imperfectly, and trying again.

We’re so conditioned to crave certainty — to have a plan, a goal, a five-year timeline. But some of the most transformative parts of our journey happen when we’re lost, wandering, or starting over.

You don’t need a roadmap to be worthy.
You don’t need to have it all figured out to be doing enough.

Here’s What You Do Know:

You’re still here.
You’re still trying.
You’re still learning, feeling, unfolding.
And that counts for more than you think.

So if you're in a space of confusion or reinvention right now — trust this:
There’s wisdom in the unknown.
Magic in the becoming.
And strength in showing up, even with shaky hands.

Take a breath.
Take one small step.
And remind yourself —
It’s okay to have no clue what you’re doing.

You're doing better than you think.